Who's pink thinking?

Hi, my name is Emma Dobrescu and this is the place where I entrap part of my thoughts.

17Feb

Social media has become an inherent part of our life. It is a a means to stay informed and it is convenient. With a click you can find out what the whole world has been up to while you were asleep or otherwise occupied. At the same time, it’s a new order. The order of elite and its followers.

The concept of followers is by no means a new one. In ancient Greece most public figures had followers. All religious dogmas speak of disciples. In Europe, Theodoric and Alexander the Great started a real royal court culture that extended further to local noble courts. The Islamic world had Caliphates, the Chinese empire had one of the largest courts in the Forbidden City. Later on, these entourages evolved into political groups, parties as we now know them. Throughout the history, anybody who was somebody had a group of followers around them who would enrich their presence at any place, listen to their words of wisdom, spread their opinions and enhance their fame. Granted, those followers were as prone to leave their “master” at a drop of a hat as they are today. Loyalty was as much of a fickle thing back then as it is now, mostly because the act of following was not based upon any soul deep connection or conceptual compatibility, but on social favors and power.

Being “très à la mode” granted you special privileges, invitations to fashionable events, the ohs and ahs of the  general public, gave your words the value of an axiom and made you suitable for becoming a model to be followed. The followers, especially those to which loyalty was anathema, were there for sharing part of that fame. Was it trendy to follow the thoughts and fashion of a certain Madame de Pompadour? Then, by all means, let the whole Europe dress and talk like mini copies of her. Was it rumored that she might have fallen from the king’s grace? You would hear her being dissed at every corner by the same mini copies that were now dressed like the present protegée. People felt the need then, as they do now, to be part of the trend. If they couldn’t be the ones to set a new path, they could at least say that they belonged to the group that followed that path. “I follow the trends, therefore I am” is the motto of the practiced follower.The whys and hows do not exist. If asked for an explanation, they would only repeat the words of their mentors. The world would lose yet another opportunity to evolve and gain one more mindless – though sometimes prettily adorned – sheep.

Alexander Chase said “People, like sheep, tend to follow a leader – occasionally in the right direction.” While this statement might seem outrageous, it holds an undeniable truth: most people need leadership. Not necessarily because they are natively incapable of thinking for themselves, but because they need guidance. We are all searching for our path. In this search, before we define ourselves as freestanding, we need models to look up to, to follow. Leaders of any kind, be they kings, governments or clergy, always knew this fact and exploited it to obtain utmost obedience. Nowadays politicians and marketers are milking the same, well, sheep. Social media, while not inherently created for that, it serves the same purpose. The model of elite and followers works exceptionally well, mainly because shallowness is an integral part of our life. Too busy with our day to day existence, we pick ideas from here and there, not always having or taking the time to delve deeper into the subjects in question.

The principle is rather simple: as we absorb information, we will always look up to those who are considered to be experts or authorities in that field and we will start carving our own opinions based on that. And while staying informed and being up to date with people’s opinions is vital these days, mindless idea adoption can be disastrous. Ignorance, lack of depth or “la forme sans le fond” may and will get us in trouble.  One must never forget that trend-setters, at the end of the day, are just people and people are subjective. One cannot read someone’s opinion and expect a BBC report. Said trend-setters, unthinkable as it may sound, do not hold the absolute truth – only the public’s attention. By adopting and promoting their ideas, you are responsible for more followers who, in turn, thought that you knew what you were talking about. A vicious circle, I would say. And, in the mean time, we forget to use our own brain.

So what is one to do? Read. Read the basics on a subject, then the details, know the norms or standards by heart and, by all means, invest the time to learn what others have to say about it. But as you do that, don’t forget to think for yourself. With all the knowledge you acquired, experiment. And, if you are bold and knowledgeable enough, break the rules in case you think they stand in the way of your goal. In regards to the web, there is no web police that will give you a fine for breaking design and development norms – only your visitors can do that. As long as your code or designs provide a good, attractive experience for the user, the rest is more or less irrelevant. Yes, you might be dissed and accused. The elite and its crew might hold you in contempt. But playing inside the norms never gave us any groundbreaking masterpiece or discovery. Lose the herd for a while and wander a bit. And who knows, in the process of finding greener pastures, maybe you’ll happen to set your own path.

26Jan

Saturday evening on Broadway. The lights shine brightly on the busiest area of the city that is filled with people, cars, sounds, scents and, most of all, dreams. While I make my way to the Broadhurst Theater, the anticipation does funny things to my stomach. I am familiar with the feeling, I’ve known it for years since I was a child. The thought of attending a play, the new world that it would open to me, the idea of being transported into a whole new universe never failed to mesmerize me. But this time I don’t know what to expect. This time I’m going to attend a performance of Equus Read the rest of this entry »

In 2007 there had been 139 plane accidents with a total of 968 dead people. In the same year, over 150,000 people died and around 6 million people were injured in auto vehicle related accidents. People invented touchscreens and holograms, like the ones in Star Trek. Yet we use the same means of transportation as in the 80’s. It boggles the mind.

18Nov

If most of the sublets in New York have a rule of “no smoking”, I wonder where do all the people that bum cigarettes live? Surely they do not pay full rent as they cannot afford buying cigarettes. Or do they save all the cigarettes money for the rent?
When I worked in Midtown on 7th Avenue, on a regular day at least 2 people would bum cigarettes from me. Some days maybe even 4 or 5. Most of them were fairly decent people and they looked like people that had a home. I don’t think they were tourists. You can see tourists right away. They are loud, in awe at every step, walking with a map in hand, wearing “I love NY” t-shirts or hurrying in the 7th Ave boutiques to buy said t-shirts for 20$ while they could find them two avenues down for half the price. So no, people who would bum cigarettes aren’t tourists. They are fully fledged New Yorkers that know that they could bum a cigarette, succeed in most of the cases and perhaps even have a fairly decent chat while they’re at it.
So I ask again, where do they live? Is there a special little place where smokers live in this city? There must be some secret society, “Cigarette Illuminati” thing because most of the ads on craigslist look like an anti-smoking campaign. You could see for example things like “Please be smoke and drama free!”. That’s why I smoke, damn it, so there will be no drama. Or “smokers and bad credit people needn’t apply”. Yeah, because those two things are so related to each other. Next thing you know, they’ll blame us for the downfall of the economy.
I think I’ll rent a 2br and then sublet. And the ad will say “Non-smokers – don’t even bother. I smoke, deal with it”. I’ll start a new trend. Keep your fingers crossed!

2Dec

Ice castle

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Say how do you keep ice on your gates?
How do you laugh at the sun with your eye closed? Read the rest of this entry »